The end of the year is dubbed cuffing season, with many single people seeking out short-term romances to spend the winter season with. Too many people think of a partner as a necessity during the holidays. However, you can have a merry single Christmas on your own, and it can be even more fulfilling than a short-lived relationship.

Why Being Single on Christmas Is Great

People often feel pressured to jump into a fling to avoid having a single Christmas, and some even cave into it. However, you must look past the single-shaming, especially if you prefer being alone instead of committing to someone. Here’s why going solo on the holidays is appealing:

• Bid relationship woes goodbye: Did you know some couples want to end their relationship during the holidays? About 40% view the breakup as a way to get out of buying a present. Others are simply nervous about meeting the family and growing too close. By being single, you don’t have to worry about keeping up appearances.

• More authority over your plans: Couples must organize being at multiple gatherings to catch up with their circle of family and friends. Being single means you can dictate what you will be up to during this holiday season. 

• Enjoy the holidays at your own pace: Celebrating solo also means you can pause or change schedules. If you suddenly feel like leaving a Christmas party due to a low social battery, you can do so instead of making a potential partner adjust.

• Reassess and reflect on yourself: Maybe you got out of a recent relationship. Perhaps you’ve been single your whole life. Either way, having a solo Christmas is an experience that teaches you a lot about yourself. 

How to Celebrate Christmas When You Are Single

Being alone during the holiday season doesn’t have to be lonely at all. Here are some ways to embrace being single during the Christmas season. 

1. Join a Volunteer Organization

Look up Christmas volunteering opportunities near you to have a meaningful holiday. Many organizations could use a hand with their initiatives. You can check up on the local shelters or churches for feeding programs that give back to the community. Spread holiday cheer to patients at the town hospitals or older people in nursing homes. 

2. Glam and Dress Up

Put on your best dress and glam yourself up as a pick-me-up during the winter season. About 49% of women put on makeup to boost their confidence, and the best thing is that you don’t even have to go out right after. You can put on your best holiday red lipstick and just take pictures in the comfort of your home. 

3. Organize a Travel Trip

Traveling solo is such a novel experience. You can catch a flight during these winter months or just book one in advance to save up. Browse attractions and accommodations to build your dream trip. You could also go backpacking and see where you land. Just remember to stay safe.

4. Book a Hotel Room for Yourself

If you’re more of an indoor person, get a hotel room. Just think of yourself as Kevin McCallister from “Home Alone 2” as you treat yourself to some cheese pizza. You could also go on a cabin staycation if you prefer being nearer to the great outdoors. Dress warm to enjoy the experience!

5. Create a Christmas Tradition

Try to create a little tradition that you can do for yourself. For example, have a specific date for wrapping presents ahead of any planned gatherings. You can also try these solo holiday activities:

• Cook up a Christmas dinner: Create a Christmas feast for yourself. Beef Wellington is delectable, or you can create a lovely casserole. If you have the extra time, bake some chocolate chip cookies.

• Decorate the Christmas tree: Play your favorite holiday tunes and decorate a tree, even if it’s a mini one. Add on your favorite Christmas lights and baubles before proudly putting them on display. 

• Put on a Christmas movie: Christmas films are in an intriguing league of their own. Soak up all the drama in the holiday rom-coms or look for tearjerkers that remind you of your family and friends.

• Make yourself a Christmas drink: Make yourself some mulled wine by mixing wine with orange slices and your favorite spices. If you prefer non-alcoholic, a nice hot chocolate is excellent for the cold. 

6. Go on a Spa Trip

Take a solo trip to the spa during the Christmas season. Some facilities have a pool where you can swim or a sauna to sweat. You can get a massage to remove all the knots and tension from earlier in the year. A facial and bath is also great to relax and rejuvenate. Get your nails done and maybe enjoy a cup of tea in between

7. Meet with Family and Friends

Being single means more time to meet up with your family and friends. Have a dinner party or two to exchange gifts and spend time. You can also grab a drink at your favorite cafe on the days when you and your loved ones are free.

8. Mingle with Fellow Singles

If you feel comfortable meeting new people, consider joining activities like hiking or book clubs. Engaging in spaces surrounding your interest means meeting like-minded people and creating new friendships with people. 

9. Start Journaling

Having a single Christmas opens up plenty of opportunities for self-reflection. Bring out a journal and start writing down your thoughts about the past year. Search up question prompts online to rack up your brain. You could also write down hopes and plans for the future. 

10. Find a Book to Read

Go through your list of unread books this holiday season. The average reader can read 300 pages in 8.3 hours, but you can take your time throughout this month. That said, going on a reading marathon is also its own fun challenge.

Embrace Being Single on Christmas

Celebrating a single Christmas can be so much more gratifying than you think. Avoid rushing into a relationship and find joy in your own company. Share your favorite holiday plans with us on our socials!